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It's a good article, but the author never seems to get beyond the listening part or Step 1 (certainly an important step). I think that Step 2 is asking "So what can I do to make you happy?" They may ask for more than you'd like to give, but it's been my experience that they typically ask for less than what you were originally going to offer. If so, you're happy because you didn't up as much as you thought and they're happy because they get exactly what they wanted.